WHY HIV / AIDS RELATED DISCRIMINATION IN CORPORATE ENDORSEMENTS FOR ARTISTS AND ENTERTAINERS IS A HUMAN RIGHTS ISSUE- BY RICHARD AMUOK

 

It was a sad day, wasn’t it? For the staunch followers and supporters of my favourite Kenyan comedian Eric Omondi, when rumours leaked out that he was HIV+. The drama that followed after the rumours, like the withdrawal of some endorsements that he was expecting, is what amazed me completely on the state of matters of human rights ignorance among the endorsers and we as artists and entertainers in general. Although it was later realized as just another prank to sabotage the comedian’s efforts , just like the crocodile’s pose with its mouth wide open attracting flies into it, that was an open act of discrimination on the part of HIV/AIDS victims.

In this age and time we must be able to openly reject any myths and misconceptions and fight unnecessary HIV/AIDS related discrimination and stigma.  The people in positions of authority have to accept the reality of HIV in our communities, and recognize the rights of people living with HIV/AIDS.

HIV/AIDS is another killer disease which requires management and daily medication just like cancer, high blood pressure and heart disease, diabetes, tuberculosis, asthma, ulcers etc.  The difference with HIV is that it impacts greatly on the individual’s social identity and sometimes integrity. According to UNAIDS’ HIV/AIDS HUMAN RIGHTS YOUNG PEOPLE IN ACTION  TRAINING KIT – “Lack of recognition of human rights not only causes unnecessary personal suffering and loss of dignity for people living with HIV or AIDS but it also contributes directly to the spread of the epidemic since it hinders the  response. For  example,  when  human  rights  are  not  respected,  people  are  less  likely  to  seek counselling, testing, treatment and support because it means facing discrimination, lack of confidentiality or other negative consequences”.

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If I try to picture the whole scene at the time, it must have been a very trying moment for the comedian both psychologically and socially. The business entity went ahead to give him an economical blow at that same trying moment and if the guy was really infected then he would be seeing his whole world fall down and all his dreams and ambitions thrown to the sharks with betrayal from those that he trusted all along!

If he was the breadwinner in the family both extended and nuclear, then the betrayal would affect so many people close to him as well as the people working in the same industry who victims of HIV/AIDS. His right of employment had just been abused and he was discriminated against because of his perceived HIV status. Link and Phelans theory of stigma states that “ stigma is the convergence of labelling, stereotyping, separation, and discrimination by a stigmatizer with access to social, political, and/or economic power”.

In the case of Eric Omondi’s prank the endorsers should have known better with facts all over regarding care and support as well as nutrition and medication for those infected with the virus. They should have gone ahead and endorsed him while at the same time giving him psycho-social support and care to set a positive example to society and world in general but they did the exact opposite and set a negative precedent on perception in the media and entertainment industry for the millions of “victims” of the disease.  Now an artist whose privacy has been violated and is perceived to be a carrier of the virus will find it very hard tosurvive in such murky waters of indecision and practical support for victims of HIV.

When a person is already laden with the mental trauma associated with the disease then you go ahead and give him a cold shoulder and turn him/her away you appear very hypocritical to everyone. Let me tell you this for sure. If you are not infected you are affected through someone close to you like a relative or friend so we are all involved in this. I challenge the endorsers to change their thinking so that everyone in the entertainment industry may show solidarity to fellow countrymen entertainers who are just victims of the disease and not criminals.

THE TRIUMPH OF AN AMAZING MAN LIVING WITH HIV- PART ONE, RICHARD AMUOK

STIGMA – YOUR DAYS ARE NUMBERED!

A lot of people talk about HIV based on their understanding of the literature they may have gone through or as a result of having observed a suffering relative/patient that had been attacked by opportunistic infections and underwent tremendous pain, but few speak out of experience living with the virus.

When I first tested positive for HIV the impact was enormous! That result accelerated a collection of toxic emotional states that were both intense and chronic. In short I was filled with:

 Intense fear

 Intense shame

 Intense guilt

 Intense helplessness

 Intense hopelessness

Such intense emotions are actually what undermines and knocks out a person’s natural defences due to the constant feelings of hurting.

During this period a pattern slowly developed where I stopped eating well, stopped sleeping regularly, and stopped taking care of myself. The only thing I thought of during this period was getting sick and dying. The worst feeling was that I had failed in maintaining the family’s integrity. In my mind I was preparing to die. Everything was over and I noticed that even the people that surrounded me, that had knowledge of my status, also had expectations that I was on my way to the grave.

I thought I would never be loved or love again and in fact stayed away from women for a whole two years not getting intimate with anyone! I believed I would never be touched freely, and I would never kiss again and I just became horrible thinking myself being a walking dead person.

During that period I noticed that everything around me was conspiring for me to get ill and die. I thought that everyone including the health workers I sought help and advice from, the doctors giving me prescriptions, the government, NGO’s and donor funding agencies were all sure of my death and appeared willing to help me go through that sad noble path to my death as long as I stayed in that path and played the role of a victim.

Although that path seems noble and attractive, to me it’s like giving up! Deep down I believed that God would never make me a victim of anything but would make me a victor in everything.

After hiding in the worst of slums in Mombasa for a whole year, I finally saw that the power of HIV/AIDS is the belief of death that people have given it and it is propagated mostly by stigma.

After some intense soul searching, I looked back at the blessings that God had bestowed on me in the form of talents and decided to use those in a way that may help other people to overcome the fear of getting tested and to overcome the intense toxic feelings one gets when they receive the diagnosis results for the first time. In short I started viewing the HIV as a blessing and have never looked back.

Today I am here praising and thanking God for HIV because instead of killing my spirit it has actually given me more reason to stay alive. This is survival of the fittest. I am surviving in my own way with the help of medication and everyone else is surviving in their own unique way even if HIV negative. At the end of the day we have different destinies and purposes to fulfill in this world and I believe that HIV/AIDS is my purpose on earth.

I want to urge the people living with the virus to live their lives to the fullest. If you had a dream, don’t let it die because you tested positive, Know that you are GREATER than HIV/AIDS. Do not give the scourge any power, you must stand up and declare that you are greater than the enemy. In this kind of war that we are in, we must face the enemy without fear because the enemy thrives on fear.

The more we fear, the more this disease will be transmitted by those that have it and don’t know their status because they fear knowing it. This creates more chances for those that are not infected yet to get infected in due course. It’s a silly thing that HIV is viewed the way it is simply because it is sexually transmitted. Sex is very normal/natural whereas the virus is not! Its that simple.

Its high time we stop the empty talk on matters of stigma and let pro activity and action take effect. Political parties whether in opposition or in the government should show support to the millions who have been infected or affected by the virus, and the irony of the matter is that we are gaining the numbers!

ROLE MODEL OF THE WEEK – IBIYEMI ALABI (KAFT TRENDZ) – MULTI-AWARD WINNING FASHION DESIGNER & STYLIST

Ibiyemi Alabi is a multi-award winning Fashion Designer and Stylist. After years of studying and working with a 1st degree in Economics and a Masters in Business Administration (Financial Management), she decides to bring all her experience towards a new Venture. Started Kaft Trendz in 2013 with a passion to help modern fashion istas, individuals, social fashion cravers stand out uniquely on her brand. She is constantly improving on her designs ,a business attitude that has clearly positioned her as one of the best fashion entrepreneurs in UK.

Ibiyemi takes customer feedback very seriously, her approach is positive sincere honest and very attentive as she analyses the needs of each client. She loves empowering clients with the self confidence that comes with a new look and individual style. A strategy used for her business expansion.

Kaft Trendz Signature was launched in 2015 with a passion for fashion styling a business designed to help individuals, businesses, parties and all types of events define their own distinctive image and style.

KAFT

CORPORATE AWARDS AND RECOGNITION

Kaft Trendz received an award for excellence at the Gathering Of Africa’s Best Awards 2015 (GAB Awards) for the Outstanding contribution to the promotion of the positive image of Africa and Africans around the world through fashion.

Kaft Trendz Won Best Fashion Designer 2015 True African Heritage Awards.

Won Best Female Fashion Designer British Make-up Artist Awards 2015.

Received a Recognition Award for Best Fashion Signature

Business at the Marketing Ministers VIP Business Dinner & Premium Recognition 2015

Finalist Fashion Category Nigerian Events Awards 2015

Finalist Fashion Category International Achievement

Recognition Awards Dinner 2015.

Kaft Trendz’s brand has featured in many fashions shows in the UK, gradually making it an attraction to all would-be fashion shows organizer’s.

MISSION

Presently serving Customers worldwide, there is no doubt that, her current expansion plans will see more potential customers across the offshore enjoy similar fashion experience.

As fashion and styles are constantly dynamic, Kaft Trendz is working tremendously by improving the standards and setting quality pace for the up-coming fashionistas . No wonder their slogan is “Craftly Created With Class”.

THE AMAZING WORLD OF LADY B BLESS -SETTING THE PACE FOR CHANGE AND PROGRESS

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HOW MUCH DO YOU KNOW ABOUT 9JA POP ART NEW JERSEY?

9Ja Pop Art is an expression of the differences that make us special…but bind us together. 9Ja Pop Art looks at the everyday and seeks the singular. 9Ja Pop Art explores the weirdness behind the mundane. 9Ja Pop Art steps back, looks at conventional wisdom and seeks an alternate path. Not all rules are made to be broken, but the trodden path is never the only route. 9ja Pop Art has several original graphics lines comprising a series of themed works.

They are all exhibited on our website: https://www.etsy.com/shop/9JaPopArt.

Or follow us on our Facebook page where we immerse followers in the creative process: https://www.facebook.com/9JaPA. 9ja Pop Art produces all forms of graphics from book covers to publicity posters to t-shirt designs to calendars to billboards, etc. We have a full price list and catalog of previous commissions available for clients upon request. We can take commissions from design to production in a variety of media and we have high quality print and shirt makers available.

9JAPOP

 

Let our original works and previous commissions inspire ideas for your business or personal graphics needs! 9ja Pop Art has a library of over 100 logo designs, all of which are fully customizable with hundreds of fonts at our clients’ disposal. Customers browse through and pick a design for 9Ja Pop Art to use in developing a totally unique brand icon to get a radical look for their business.

9ja Pop Art is anything but typical. Come to us if you want your graphics to stand out from the crowd. Go to the neighborhood mall for the same old same old…

TONY FERNANDEZ IN CONJUNCTION WITH 9JA POP ARTS ORGANISE AFRICA4U AWARDS IN NEW JERSEY, USA, SUNDAY THE 20TH OF MARCH

DEAR FAMILY AND FRIENDS,
ITS ALL HAPPENING NEXT MONTH IN THE STATES

Tony Tokunbo Fernandez IN CONJUNCTION WITH 9Ja Pop Art Graphic Arts Exhibition NEW JERSEY PRESENTS
THE AFRICA4U AWARDS FOR PEOPLE OF COLOUR IN NEW JERSEY & NEW YORK
VENUE – THE MEETING ROOM, WEST ORANGE PUBLIC LIBRARY,46 MOUNT PLEASANT AVENUE, WEST ORANGE,NEW JERSEY, NJ07052, USA AT 1PM ON THE DOT
IF YOU ARE LIVING IN NEW JERSEY OR NEW YORK, THIS IS AN EVENT YOU CANNOT AFFORD TO MISS.

 

FLYER

COME AND BE PART OF AN AMAZING AFTERNOON OF AWARD PRESENTATIONS, INSPIRATIONAL TALKS, EXHIBITION & SALES OF CUSTOMISED T-SHIRTS, ART WORK,BOOKS AND AFRICAN PRODUCTS
COME AND NETWORK, LETS CELEBRATE TOGETHER AS ONE.
THE EVENT IS ALSO BEING PROUDLY SUPPORTED BY Afro Carib Radio, USA AND THE AMAZING LADY B (Barbara E Walters) BASED IN THE STATES.
Africa4U IS ALL ABOUT CELEBRATING AND PROMOTING THE TRUE LIFE & SUCCESS STORIES OF AFRICANS AND PEOPLE OF COLOUR AROUND THE WORLD.
WE ALSO FOCUS ON FOUR IMPORTANT AREAS IN EVERY DAY LIFE

1. YOUTH EMPOWERMENT.
2. COMMUNITY COHESION
2. EDUCATION & BESPOKE TRAINING
4. CULTURAL INTELLIGENCE

WE HAVE ORGANISED COMMUNITY BASED AWARD INITIATIVES IN THE UK, GERMANY, HOLLAND, AND EASTERN EUROPE.

ALSO WATCH THIS SPACE TO FIND OUT MORE ABOUT 9Ja Pop Art Graphic Arts Exhibition IN THE NEXT FEW WEEKS

THE TONY TOKUNBO FERNANDEZ INTERNATIONAL ONLINE COMPETITION FOR POETS IN SOUTHERN AFRICA STARTS NEXT WEEK

DEAR FAMILY, FRIENDS AND FANS,

I AM PLEASED TO INFORM YOU THAT THE Tony Tokunbo FernandezINTERNATIONAL ONLINE COMPETITION FOR POETS IN SOUTHERN AFRICA STARTS NEXT WEEK , MONDAY THE 15TH OF FEBRUARY AND ENDS ON MONDAY THE 18TH OF APRIL 2016
THE COMPETITION IS AIMED AT ENCOURAGING THE ART OF WRITING IN MANY LITERARY CIRCLES AROUND DIFFERENT REGIONS OF THE WORLD AND INCREASING THE LEVEL OF CREATIVE CONFIDENCE, AND SELF ESTEEM AS PART OF OUR YOUTH EMPOWERMENT INITIATIVES.
ENTRIES FOR THE Tony Tokunbo Fernandez INTERNATIONAL ONLINE COMPETITION WILL NEED TO BE SENT IN BY EMAIL NO EARLIER THAN MONDAY THE 15TH OF FEBRUARY 2016.

BASIC RULES OF THE COMPETITION CAN BE FOUND BELOW- PLEASE FORWARD THIS POST TO ALL YOUR CONTACTS LIVING IN SOUTHERN AFRICA

REAL

BASIC RULES.

1. APPLICANTS WILL NEED TO BE LIVING IN ANY COUNTRY IN SOUTHERN AFRICA
2. CONTENT WILL NEED TO BE ENGAGING WITH THOUGHT PROVOKING THEMES AND SUBJECT MATTERS RICH IN STYLISTIC DEVICES
3. ENTRIES WILL BE NEED TO SENT TO afripoet@gmail.com AND THE SUBJECT HEADING NEEDS TO BE TITLED “TTF POETRY”
4. CLOSING DATE FOR SUBMISSIONS IS MONDAY THE 18TH OF APRIL 2016

WINNERS WILL RECEIVE GOLD, SILVER AND BRONZE, AWARD CERTIFICATE, PRIZES AND FREE PROMOTION OF THEIR WORK ON MY INTERNATIONAL BLOG WHICH HAS A DECENT FOLLOWING IN OVER 17 COUNTRIES.
ALL TEN FINALISTS WILL ALSO HAVE FREE PROMOTION OF THEIR LITERARY WORK ON MY BLOG

ALSO WATCH THIS SPACE FOR MORE UPDATES, FOR MORE INFO YOU CAN CONTACT ME ON WHATSAPP AS I AM BASED IN THE UK +447882809005

ROLE MODEL OF THE WEEK- ABENA BOAHENG FROM GHANA – AMBASSADOR FOR EAGLE SUMMIT AFRICA

My name is Juliet Abena Boaheng, I am a Co-partner and Ambassador of Eagles summit Africa lecture series.
We organise seminars and training for universities, tertiary institutions,business entities,companies and group of individuals currently in Ghana and other part of Africa.
We intend to expand our network to other parts of the world and invite great speakers to our initiatives from different parts of Africa.

I also work with Ghana home loans – We buy houses and lands for individuals (both nationals and non-nationals,residents)

I am very passionate about making a different to the future of Africans and I consider myself a Role Model with so much to offer

ANGIE AMRA ANDERSON – A CALL FOR THE 1ST AFRICAN-ARTS MULTI-PURPOSE ACADEMY – PLEASE SUPPORT

CALLING THE DREAM TEAM TO RAISE THE VISION FOR THE FIRST AFRICAN ARTS MULTI-PURPOSE ACADEMY. YES, I AM CALLING YOU. This is not a singular artistic egotistical mission. To state that I have been in African arts for 42 years and have seen all the various highs and lows is understated.

 

What is real is

(1) African Artiste Alliance – can be a formidable force.

(2) A building can be leased as an interim step towards our own building collectively via producing a range of artistic fundraisers
(3) A strong governance is needed to ensure the lasting legacy. This is a real call for real support, not lip service, but those interested in building a lasting legacy for our generation and the next, a cultural hub like no other. Say YES, below and/or better still say Yes, drop me a message with your contact and I will be in touch. ASE O!!! 2016 WE ARE ONE.

angie

This picture photographed by Alex Finlayson was a part of the Africa Day’s launch of Amra and the Yeye Drummers 2015. It was indeed a pleasure to be asked to support a powerful Ethiopian Traditional Dance and Music group (pictured with the drum in the background).